Originally posted by ranger_roland:
I know several girls who are head over heels in love with
their partners. Even when their partners cheat on them, to the
extend of having sex with another girl. Some cases the guy stopped
treating them well and started using them like objects. I don't get
it...what makes girls get so attached to a particular guy for years
and years despite how poorly the guy treat them?
[b]The question is: How does a guy go about making a girl fall so
much in love with him?
I read somewhere that one trick is to be "cold"? Don't be
desperately seeking the girl's attention. Instead, ignore her until
she comes knocking. Some say this will make the girl "desperate for
you" instead. True? What if some other guy comes along and snatch
her away while u're trying to be cold?
What about being caring and attentive? Won't girls like guys who
knows how to treat them special and pay extra attention to them
also? But won't this conflict with the "cold method" described
above?[/b]
If you don't mind reading abit.
Your question more or less answered in another thread.
Many a times you have to find the 'right' person and you have to
execute the right moves to bind her.
Not easy.
I recommend you to read the link first and what we've discussed so
far, you can also contribute to that link 
http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=235012